I am working with someone who is performing a service which will end up with my receipt of a physical object. There are lots of options involved in this object - like a car, but not a car. I've told this person what I want it to look like a couple of times. He disagrees with one of my selections. I told him that I recognize that he has a lot of experience, but I prefer the way I selected. Then today, he again asked me to choose from the two options, my choice and his preference. I emailed my preference. Then, again, he asked me to choose.
I really couldn't give a rat's ass what he prefers. I want what I want. Those of you who know me know that I go after what I want and I generally get it. This is such a small thing, why does he care? It's my object. If he didn't want to give me options, he simply shouldn't have in the first place.
How many times do I have to say that I'm not changing my mind?